Push Push Push… Coz Pushpa isn’t coming to give you a push… Yes, it’s true, when it comes to reaching out for your goals. It is only you, who can push yourself into the hardships to get that achieved. Although Pushpa wants you to be successful, yet she is too lazy to push you for this.
Have you ever thought, what is common among the people whom Pushpa is always supporting, those who are leading, taking new challenges and creating new milestones?
One of the common answers, I normally have come across, is that they are born achievers. Well, no it is not the case. There may be some lucky people out there and it’s a blessing, but to get bounties mostly it is up to us who have to work our way up.
We have to push ourselves out of our comfort zones, and unless we are not willing to do that, we won’t be able to achieve our targets. Yes, exactly ‘the targets’, which we make and then we hide them somewhere in between our comfort zones and coziness. An object cannot really push itself, so much as it can push other, more static objects, like a wall or something. Even if you sometimes try to push your own body, you might find that it doesn’t really do much but knock you over.
If you find your own method of propulsion insufficient, perhaps you need the help of external stimuli. But hey, wait, let’s devise some easy method for this. By ‘easy’ I didn’t mean very easy, but the one which needs motivation and consistency.
“Make hard look easy,” Stein writes. “I like that challenge. I like being the kind of person who is capable of that.”
These are few steps on which we have to work for Pushpa to start liking you. Simple, understandable and of course result oriented.
- Convince yourself and take Control: Yes, you read it right, you need to convince yourself that, you actually want to do it. Unless you are convinced to do anything, you won’t be able to even take a step for that. Be in charge of your body and be the strictest you can.
- Break your goals/tasks into short timelines: Isn’t that sounds good. Instead of working for the last deadline, why don’t you create multiple deadlines for yourself? Break the task and you would be taking more interest in finishing it. You will get more fun in thinking of all the possible ways you can use to cross the path.
- Surround yourself with Quality people: The saying goes, you’re the average of the 5 people you hang out with most — so surround yourself with HARD workers!” Be it anyone at workplace, or hangouts. Choose wisely with whom you want to share your quality time.
- Stay Focused & Remember “Why”? : It’s difficult to motivate yourself to keep working if you’re not able to concentrate on the task at hand. Nothing is more motivating than reminding yourself whyyou’re doing the work in the first place. Whether you’re building a product you love or simply putting food on the table for your family, it’s crucial that you remain in touch with what inspires you.
Last but not the least
5.Stay Positive: You have to, there is no other way out, You can’t go all down and low if you face one failure, they are there to come on your path, it’s you who have to stay focused and go pass them. Failures are only there to tell you that there are more than one ways to do things. Isn’t that Simple…
You have to stay focus, on your abilities rather than on your weak points. No one in this world is present without any of these weaker areas but the true beauty of success is how you hide them from world and don’t let them come in your way towards your destination,
Marina Abaza suggests focusing on your strengths, rather than dwelling on your weaknesses.
“Building self-esteem is about finding out what your strengths are and then developing and building on them,” Abaza writes. “Your employer would not have given you a job if they did not recognize certain skills in you.”
So what are you waiting for? Get up and give a PUSH to YOURSELF, coz Pushpa is binge-watching movies & everyone is else busy pushing themselves and nobody has got time for you.